I think I know the source of my earlier confusion. The SPP app I was using for testing, popped up a connect dialog initially on startup, so I was expecting that to happen with the Optimiser APP. Once I knew that it was a menu selection, everything worked fine.
I found the log files and ECU map and uploaded them to Google Drive so I could look at them. They all seem to be OK. I took pictures of the front and back of the dongle, and its temporary location on the bike. I will seal it in clear heat shrink and make an adapter so I can snap it into the Optimiser's holder on the handlebars. I have posted pictures at:
https://picasaweb.google.com/106090307548421468637/Bluetooth?authuser=0&authkey=... Now for a minor quibble: As you can see from the two pictures of the Tab 2 screen, the battery voltage appears to be 2.61V (the first 1 is on the battery symbol border, and my old eyes didn't recognize it at first). Also, there are some unidentified voltages and percentages to the right of the battery symbol, and they are almost on top of each other. I know you have to make the APP work for both phones and tablets, so it's not a big deal, I just need to know what they are.
Finally, thanks for all your hard work and help with this!